darknation Posted July 19, 2003 situation: man and a woman, woman asks man out. Man agrees. Man has date with woman for tonight. Woman tell man that she has a boyfriend in each town where she lives, making man current boyfriend #3. Does man go out tonight and other night for sex, or does man tell her to beat it on moral grounds. Man (i.e me) has about 6 hours to make this choice. 0 Share this post Link to post
Kinsie Posted July 19, 2003 This is something no-one can decide for you. 0 Share this post Link to post
Melfice Posted July 19, 2003 Might aswell...sorry Dn, don't really have a good reasoning behind it, but I figure you might aswell have some fun or get something out of it. I guess you could always look at your alternatives, ie. what you would be doing if you didn't go out with her. 0 Share this post Link to post
zark Posted July 19, 2003 If you don't do it, you might regret not doing it. Then again, if you do do it, you might regret doing it. It's really up to you. Personally I wouldn't get involved with this person, she doesn't sound like the person anyone could have a proper relationship with. But if all you're looking for is fun with none of the emotional baggage then I guess it would be alright. 0 Share this post Link to post
darknation Posted July 19, 2003 well, so far all it's achived is really pissing off Wendy... whether this will make her realise that I am not going to be putting up with her shit forever or make her never speak to me again because I am a shallow selfish creature for even considering it remains to be seen. 0 Share this post Link to post
insertwackynamehere Posted July 19, 2003 No. Don't screw up your life. So many bad things could come out of this situation, a hardly any good things. BTW, In your poll, is it "Yes do it" or "Yes tell her to beat it" 0 Share this post Link to post
geekmarine Posted July 19, 2003 I'd have to agree with insert here. There are so many ways it could go wrong, it's just not worth it. Plus, a woman like that doesn't deserve to get what she wants. I also agree with insert about not understanding the poll itself. 0 Share this post Link to post
Enjay Posted July 19, 2003 She has 3 BF's. She's not looking for commitment, nor should you from this. Should you screw her? Well, if you're both looking for a bit of fun with nothing more, then why not if both your morals allow. If she's looking for commitment from you whilst keeping 2 other men on the boil, forget it unless you can live with that, but it’ll drive you crazy. I say go for it. It's better than a wank, and by this time next year you'll probably both have almost forgotten each other. So endeth another tasteless lesson. :-) 0 Share this post Link to post
Rellik Posted July 19, 2003 Just becareful Dn, you never know if your gonna stick your dick in her just to have it turn black and fall off a few weeks later. Other than that I'm not sure how much the moral side fits in. Considering how many millions of people die from it every year obviously sex isn't a harmless recreational sport, but it's your life. You just gotta ask yourself will more good than bad come from the situation? I know more than a few people for whom sex has become a regret. It's great, fun, exciting etc, but that doesn't mean you might not feel like a peice of shit afterwards. Heh, and remember it's not like you're leaving for Mars on Monday. There plenty more poonany where that came from. Don't put so much pressure on yourself. :) 0 Share this post Link to post
Joe Doom Posted July 19, 2003 Hell, go ahead and do her. You only live once, right? 0 Share this post Link to post
Fletcher` Posted July 19, 2003 DN, I never really thought of having any morales. :P Human nature states that if you can't fuck it, kill it. 0 Share this post Link to post
deathbringer Posted July 19, 2003 Being bi and poly, i'd ask if her and the other 2 guys wanted to meet up for an orgy XD 0 Share this post Link to post
Little Faith Posted July 19, 2003 There is nothing wrong with that. She definately will not be hurt as she actually made clear that all she was up to was a little fun. 0 Share this post Link to post
Enjay Posted July 19, 2003 Rellik said:There plenty more poonany where that came from. What!!!!!111 You can't say things like that on an internet message board. You'll make us all feel inadequate. No-one here is getting any. That's why we're sitting here in front of our computers on a Saturday. :-) 0 Share this post Link to post
Naked Snake Posted July 19, 2003 Dump her. Any girl with more than one boyfriend is a slut, and sluts are dangerous for the health of your dick / body / mind. 0 Share this post Link to post
Tobester Posted July 19, 2003 you left out vital information (what's her bra size, does she have big titties, is she a fattie) so I cant answer this.. BAHAHAHAHA YEAH RIGHT FREEE SEX GO FOR IT 0 Share this post Link to post
AndrewB Posted July 19, 2003 Oh, but any guy with more than one girlfriend is OK? Hypocrite. I voted no, don't do it. 0 Share this post Link to post
Grazza Posted July 19, 2003 Note that dn's deadline for making his decision passed more than two hours ago, so the discussion is a bit moot now. 0 Share this post Link to post
Fletcher` Posted July 19, 2003 Tobester said:is she a fattie) "Fat-bottomed girls you make my rockin' world go 'round" 0 Share this post Link to post
Tobester Posted July 19, 2003 ravage said:"Fat-bottomed girls you make my rockin' world go 'round" from a band called QUEEN 0 Share this post Link to post
Doom-Child Posted July 19, 2003 Enjay said:What!!!!!111 You can't say things like that on an internet message board. You'll make us all feel inadequate. No-one here is getting any. That's why we're sitting here in front of our computers on a Saturday. :-) Haha! I'll be getting some in about seven or eight hours! Neener neener! DC 0 Share this post Link to post
darknation Posted July 19, 2003 dn's final solution: get totally wrecked and let events run their course. Blame alcohol if things go batshit. Fuck this responsibility shit, let's go with the flow. It's either spontanous or apathetic, depending on your point of view. And thus dn has spoken. So it is writen. So it shall be done. 0 Share this post Link to post
Fletcher` Posted July 19, 2003 Tobester said:from a band called QUEEN What, you think no-one knew that already? :P 0 Share this post Link to post
Job Posted July 19, 2003 darknation said:dn's final solution: get totally wrecked and let events run their course. Blame alcohol if things go batshit. Fuck this responsibility shit, let's go with the flow. It's either spontanous or apathetic, depending on your point of view. And thus dn has spoken. So it is writen. So it shall be done. That's too easy. Either way, it's a waste to even bother. You're just another notch to her. I'd tell her to get out of town on the whore she rode in on. 0 Share this post Link to post
Melfice Posted July 19, 2003 And now an Nine Inch Nails song to accompany the situation and its outcome. From what it sounds like, Wendy is a... Reptile Downward Spiral (1994) She spreads herself wide open to let the insects in She leaves a trail of honey to show me where she's been She has the blood of reptile just underneath her skin Seeds from a thousand mothers drip down from within Oh my beautiful liar Oh my precious whore My disease my infection I am so impure (oooh) Give it Devils speak of the way inwhich she'll manifest Angels bleed from the tainted touch of my caress Need to contaminate to alleviate this lonliness I now know the depths I reach are limitless Oh my beautiful liar Oh my precious whore My disease my infection I am so impure (oooh) Give it... 0 Share this post Link to post
darknation Posted July 19, 2003 Actually, the NIN song of the momment would be Last. 0 Share this post Link to post
Captain Red Posted July 20, 2003 I really don't think we are the people to ask this... We are either so sex starved that we would do anything that has 2 legs and a vagina, or we've managed to convince our selves that we "don't need that kind of thing." 0 Share this post Link to post