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pritch

Relationship problems...

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Okay, I'm unlike other doomworlders, so I'd like to answer your question seriously. Perhaps you should go to qukae3world.com's forums to ask about these life-questions. Those people generally would like to share with their experiences.


Does that mean you say he should chose Q3A?

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If your g/f is a nice person, then I'd say that you should stick with her.
But what the Hell do I know about girlfriends? I've never had one myself.

Heh. Ditto.

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Okay, I'm unlike other doomworlders, so I'd like to answer your question seriously. Perhaps you should go to qukae3world.com's forums to ask about these life-questions. Those people generally would like to share with their experiences.

Does that mean you say he should chose Q3A?

No, that's not what I meant. I suggest if he has any life-dealing questions, he could have probably realized it was less-chance that he could receive an actual answer/solution to his problem due to...uh you probably can see through the attitudes of most of the people in here if you've been here long enough already. I've been to Q3W's forums and I feel they like to talk about these subjects, so that's why I'm suggesting this. Although I've got Q3A, I still don't like it very much. IMO, there is nothing can be compared to the Doom DM and it rules the dm legend forever

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Okay, I'm unlike other doomworlders, so I'd like to answer your question seriously. Perhaps you should go to qukae3world.com's forums to ask about these life-questions. Those people generally would like to share with their experiences.


Does that mean you say he should chose Q3A?

No, he's saying Q3A lamers have a life, as opposed to us noble gamers & geeks.

Or something.

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Okay, I'm unlike other doomworlders, so I'd like to answer your question seriously. Perhaps you should go to qukae3world.com's forums to ask about these life-questions. Those people generally would like to share with their experiences.


Does that mean you say he should chose Q3A?

No, he's saying Q3A lamers have a life, as opposed to us noble gamers & geeks.

Or something.

Well, something like. It's sorta my point and that's what Post hell is for

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Thanks 999cop, Julian (and for the news about rworld), and other sensible people.

Those of you that pimped in my thread, you know who you are, have some pre-beta bfg!!

/me lets rip some pre-beta bfg.

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Pritch, right now I'm having a similar problem, so I know EXACTLY what you're talking about. The main thing to consider here is whether or not you are comfortable and happy in your current relationship. I mean, if you jumped around from girl to girl just because each one is more attractive than the previous, then you'll never be truly as happy as you were when you were with someone you liked for both their body AND their personality. It sounds like you have a pretty good g/f right now, so I wouldn't exactly run off to the other one just because of the beauty factor. Afterall, after the beauty fades, the only thing left is the person inside...

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I have a sexy body and a great personality, yet I'm nobody's girlfriend. A paradox?

Don't worry...as soon as the feds find your child pornography, you'll be plenty of people's 'girlfriend'.

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Pritch, right now I'm having a similar problem, so I know EXACTLY what you're talking about. The main thing to consider here is whether or not you are comfortable and happy in your current relationship. I mean, if you jumped around from girl to girl just because each one is more attractive than the previous, then you'll never be truly as happy as you were when you were with someone you liked for both their body AND their personality. It sounds like you have a pretty good g/f right now, so I wouldn't exactly run off to the other one just because of the beauty factor. Afterall, after the beauty fades, the only thing left is the person inside...

thanx, man.

I'm pretty sure it's more than the beauty... it's so hard to tell, damn it.

Why do we always want the things we don't/can't have?

If there's a defining human problem, that's it.

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Well pritch, you will always find a girl who is looking more attractive. Ask yourself if you love her (your steady g/f). Having someone who warms you up and you can talk to is a great find - and you will miss it if you are alone, believe me.

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Ok, I basically have no clue what I'm talking about, but I suggest you wait a while, because you will probably lose interest in the new girl. If you don't, then maybe you should switch, but it's your choice.

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Stay with your current girlfriend. It's hard enough to even get a girlfriend, let alone one you really connect with. Besides, would you give up what you have with her just because you MAYBE will hook up with the hotter one? And there's no guarantee that you'll really connect with hotter one. I say it's not worth risking the good thing you have with your current girlfriend.

If you're still not sure, stay with your current girlfriend until you see where the relationship is going. If you're meant to be with the other one, and you miss your current oppertunity, another oppertunity will come up. It always does if you're meant to be with someone.

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WHOA, never in mah wildest dreams did I think I would see some shit like dis up in this piece! Dis has been one weird fuckin' day!
:P

Now before most of ya'll peeps start goin' "what da fuck is dis mothafucka doin givin advice? He's probably gonna tell him to pimp-slap da bitches, or go fuck they moms/sisters or somethin" feel free to read what I wrote below.

SURPRISE, SURPRISE, wonders never cease huh?
:P
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Anyways Pritch, things like this ain't easy to explain in one simple post... this shit would be VERY EASY for me to explain if we wuz in person, but since I gots to type dis shit out.... I'll try and keep it short AND get mah point acrss as best as I can.

Now, you don't seem like da type of person who is into "ho's" too much.... you seem more like da relationship type, judgin' from what you said. So here's da deal:

You said dat yo current girlfriend is basically aight, but dat ya'll get along REALLY well... and then there is da other girl who is fine as fuck, but ya make it sound like you don't know whether or not she is attracted to ya at all and ya make it sound like you and her ain't gonna "click" too well.....hmmmmmm.

CASE 1)Well dawg, first off I gots to say dat if you and yo girl have been havin' some slight problems lately (I'm talkin' baby shit, like her not bein' available like Dan said), then dat right there could be da reason why this other girl seems so attractive to ya suddenly.... if dis is da case, and you and yo girl have been happy for da last 4 months (think back long and hard, dawg) you should try and see if you and yo girl could fix da small amount of problems dat ya'll gots and work things out.

But, if you ain't been happy with her too much for da last few months, for WHATEVER reason (whether it's looks or attitude don't matter) and it seems like you is only goin' out with her so you won't be alone.... then you needs to cut dat loose, son.... cuz it won't go nowhere. At least in this case, if you is single you may not get da girl dat ya think is so fly, but you can always try and holler at some other girls around da way.

IF THIS AIN'T WHAT'S GOIN ON WITH YOU KEEP READIN!

CASE 2) Now here's another things I'm wonderin' about : when ya first hooked up with yo girl, and I'm talkin' da first week toegther... did you look at her and think to yoself "damn, she's fine, I is lucky as fuck" or wuz you just thinkin' to yoself "uummmm, I think I can do better than dis." Cuz if you was thinkin' da first thing, then dat shit right there explains your problem.

Ya see you gotta understand dat no matter how fly a little honey might be, once you've been with her for a while some of the excitement and da glamour starts to die out.... it might take a few months, or a long time like years, or it could just take a week or two in some peeps cases. If dat's da case, then you should DEFINATELY stay with yo girl... why? Cuz you'll probably just end up thinkin' da same thing about dis new girl you think is fine as fuck.

If dat ain't da case though, and you've been thinkin' all along dat you can do better... then think about this... if you cut yo girl loose, and you end up single are ya gonna miss bein with her? It doesn't matter two shits why you'll miss her (whether it's cuz you think she was sweet, or you just wanna hit dat again is probably irrelevant in yo case), but if this is da case then you definately got a soft spot for yo girl, and you should try and see if ya'll can keep doin' yo thing together.

DANG, YOU STILL READIN' DIS? AIGHT I GUESS I AIN'T HELPED ENOUGH YET!

CASE 3:you mentioned dat while you can't stop thinkin' about this other girl, you don't think she'll be too good for ya.... why is dis? And why do ya say dat you don't see things goin' anywhere with yo current girl. You say she's pretty, and dat ya'll can talk to each other without a problem.... but I gots a REALLY important question for ya.... DO YA'LL HAVE FUN BEIN TOGETHER? Cuz if ya'll don't.... well, then ya'll gots some serious shit to talk about, and da way you talk you make it sound like you ain't havin' too much fun. In fact, you sound like you is kinda bored with it.

Get back to me on dis shit, and I can probably give ya a little more advice.

Do I risk everything for her, and lose a comfortable relationship, which is fairly enjoyable, but perhaps get something much more satisfying?


Lemme answer dis one for ya straight out... HELL'S NO! You shouldn't have to risk shit! You make it sound like you and this other girl is pretty cool, so why not try and find some time to go out and chill with her (unless she's friends with yo girl, in which case you is seriously fuckin' with fire). You ain't gotta go and act like it's a date, I mean ya'll can just get together to study or somethin. Try and find out if she's interested in you da way you is interested in her. You shouldn't go and do anythin' until you at least know what da deal is with dis girl, or you may end up losin out DOUBLE-TIME!

Or should I play safe, be grateful for what I got, and try to forget about her? Both do the same course as me at uni, so it could turn nasty...


Well unfortunately, ya didn't give me enough info to even be able to make half a decision here, cuz what ya gave me here is pretty vague dawg. Get back to me on some of dat stuff up there and I can probably drop some more words on ya. And as for things turnin' nasty... dat shit won't go on unless YOU fuck up, BIG TIME! Which is somethin' you definately don't wanna do, so don't go doin' nuthin' crazy, aight?!

Trust me.... relationships ain't as hard as most peeps say.... you just gots ta be patient, play things by ear (while watchin' yo ass of course), and learn to recognize da signs dat da ladies give ya. And always remember NOT to get greedy, cuz da grass always looks greener on da other side dawg, but trust me..... 99% of da time, IT AIN'T!!

And if all else fails.... just go PIMP-SLAP some ho's and call em bitches, then go to they house and fuck they moms/sister/fine-ass cousin!
:P

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If you're meant to be with the other one, and you miss your current oppertunity, another oppertunity will come up. It always does if you're meant to be with someone.


There's this famous joke about it:

Two trains, on a railroad with a single track, speeding towards each other, with nowhere to turn, and no possibility to stop. And yet there were no collision. Why not?

Because it wasn't meant to be.

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Why do we always want the things we don't/can't have?

That's Life. Humans are never satisfied. There'll always be something that one would rather want. Even if you were the riches man in the world, you still wouldn't be satisfyed.
That's why I tell myself that I have a good life. I don't starve every day, I have a computer and some games, I have nice parents and decent siblings, heck, I even have a few friends.
So I tend to ignore the fact that things could've been better. Right now, I'm extremely satisfied. I sit and discuss things with my "online friends" (although yesterday's big thread was rather ridiculous and slightly frustrating) and when there's nothing to reply to, I play a few great games, or do a few 'important' things (but too many of those). Yes I'm happy right now.

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Just find out which one swallows, that's the one you keep

ROFLMAO! I'm sorry, after all these deep emotional answers, this little interjection just cracked me up.

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I don't care what anybody says...Esco is the fucking man...Who'd have thought someone could type so much fucked-up English AND get a romantic point across? Not fuckin' me...

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Just find out which one swallows, that's the one you keep


fod, you remind me of me. Except, you're like...50...and I'm 15...bah, age is but a number.

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Just find out which one swallows, that's the one you keep


fod, you remind me of me. Except, you're like...50...and I'm 15...bah, age is but a number.

well at least fod has been at that age once thus he knows

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I don't care what anybody says...Esco is the fucking man...Who'd have thought someone could type so much fucked-up English AND get a romantic point across? Not fuckin' me...


ROFLMFGAO!!!

Thanks dawg..... I think?
o_O

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I don't care what anybody says...Esco is the fucking man...Who'd have thought someone could type so much fucked-up English AND get a romantic point across? Not fuckin' me...


ROFLMFGAO!!!

Thanks dawg..... I think?
o_O


Nice Job d00d, you've earned this.

/me dips esco's size 47 bluntz0r(tm) in a cup of his c0ff33 and hands it back to esco, da dawgiest dawgish dawg ever!

/me than goes off to listen to some Quiet Riot, than Metallica

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¦] /me goes lookin' for some munchies/

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