Single Status Update
I just found out that my gf went behind my back. For a man who has fetal-alcohol syndrome.
I'm still a virgin.
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You guys make me glad I'm a fag, tbh.
I wouldn't go too far mate. I've got gay friends both ladies and gentlemen and their relationship problems are no better nor worse (apart from the blatant discrimination they face). Not to mention, they can be very manipulative like how they desperately attempt to convert people (though that's more likely the case of the individual including the straights).
I guess my qualm with (straight) relationships is how normal it is for couples to have the man taller than the woman. Being short cuts down the field for me for some reason (I think I'm 160-165cm and chances of growing more than that is pretty low) and all my good attributes is yet knocked back because of me being short though I may be jumping to conclusions. At least I can tell if they're shallow, makes it easy for me to decide: "screw you for thinking that, you're missing out on something awesome here so toodledoo". I googled it though, and they say it's because it's more 'sexy', 'provides more security and feeling of safety' and 'they don't like feeling more dominant than the man', and whatever reason they can think of, yadda yadda yadda. Reeks of indoctrination. Thanks a lot hollywood.
Mr. T said:
Troubleshooting time! What do you wear? What do you talk about? etc
I wear whatever I can afford (shit that's on sale for $5). I try not to be trashy, but it's hard with my budget. I usually wear polo shirts and jeans. I seem to have acquired bleach spots on most of my shirts somehow. :/
I usually just talk about whatever interests me until I find something that interests me. I usually mention the nerdy stuff last, if at all. Stuff about literature, movies, and outdoorsy stuff is usually a good common ground with most people.
Yep. It's a gooddamn endless cycle I've been trying to pull myself out of for years.
Not really. Women can tell when you're a virgin, or at least if you haven't had a real relationship with a woman. They prefer experienced men, and can tell. For instance, I seem to not be able to figure out the right way to ask a girl out on a date, because I get a lot of weird looks and the like when I do (on top of being turned down).
[/B] Your instance, has little to do with the generalization of all women possessing magical virgin sensors. Is simply being sexually inexperienced the reason? Is effectively a man's ratio of successfully courting a woman for a date proportionate to his sexual experience? Or is it more to do with his competence in social interaction?
Not being a virgin isn't going to overnight fix this kind of thing. Unless it translates into a long term relationship which falls apart and you're back to square one. No longer a virgin, but just as awkward and depressed to boot. Essentially the same shit as when you were a virgin. Only you no longer have the "V" plate to shift to as source of inability to attract women woes.
Really the only girls who don't care are total hobags that I'd rather not have anything to do with.
What was wrong with the hobags? Were they known STD Factories? Were they portly in appearance? Did they possess visages that are capable of frightening young children?
If you can answer no to all of those questions for any of the hobags that were unfit for your dick, then I don't know what to tell you. It seems you've been taking a very womanly approach to a manly endeavor. There's nothing wrong with passing up chicks you aren't interested in. But, passing them up and then addressing virginity as a Goddamn Endless Cycle you've been trying to break for years is a bit lol.