Single Status Update
How are you gentlemen!
My ex and I split up by mutual agreement without bad feelings. Unfortunately, over the weeks, I came to realise all the things about her that I really missed. She's called me a few times just to talk (not about getting back). But she's got together with someone else.
She tried to hide it from me. She says it was a respectful period after we split but I reckon it must have been pretty soon afterwards. He is her male best friend and she never talked about him with any affection - I once got mad with her over it, as he did a lot for her and she barely noticed - and she described him as "a weird trainspotter".
Why would she hide it from me, and (possibly) pretend it happened later than it did? Why does she keep calling me just to talk about random things? Is she on the rebound, or am I being taken for a mug? Or is this what women do, and she's genuinely treating me as a friend?
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I hate this. Why should I cut all ties to someone, just because I was in a relationship with her? I'm not enemies with her.
Depends on the person and depends on the relationship. In MajorRawne's case it sounds pretty clear that continued contact with her is preventing him from moving on.
I spoke of a bender. But what of a vision quest?