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Yeah, so my girlfriend of 2 years broke up with me on Sunday night, and I feel like total shit because I really was starting to feel like our relationship could have been going somewhere further.
I've been given a lot of reasons as to why she broke up with me, chief among them being that I have on many occasions had a negative attitude, almost bordering on cynical. I feel like if she had communicated her problems to me, we could have worked all of that out. Still, she doesn't want to try and work things out and after giving me a bunch of bullshit excuses (in my opinion), she finally reveals to me that she likes somebody else. Honestly, I'm insulted. She'd much rather try and hook up with somebody she's only known for 3 months and doesn't even know at all than try and work things out with the person she knows loves her for exactly who she is and would do just about anything for.
So in a lot of regards, I'm extremely conflicted as to what I should do. I feel like she's my best friend, and she's the only one who truly understands me for who I am. I still want her in my life, and she still wants to be close friends, but I feel like if that's how things are going to be, I'm just going to be sitting and watching as she goes off with some other guy and it's going to slowly kill me inside. What's worse is that I feel like I had finally managed to bond with her family and feel like a part of someone else's family a few weeks ago and now I'm essentially being excommunicated.
I really don't know what to do. The chief advice people have been giving me is to just let it go and start introducing myself to other people, but at this point I don't know if I can bring myself to do that. I don't think people really understand how much our relationship meant to me, and expecting me to just "let it go" over a short period of time is absurd if you ask me. I don't think I could bring myself to try and be in another relationship for quite some time.
Sorry for the emo rant, and I know Doomworld isn't exactly the best place for this kind of shit, but... whatever.- Show previous comments 42 more
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Use3D said:I agree with Patrick, even if you may want to salvage the friendship, seeing her with some other dickwad would probably drive you insane, and the wound isn't going to heal having her around. If you're really meant to be friends, she'll come back, maybe after you've both moved on, but don't stew in these feelings trying to hold onto something she's already thrown away.
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I've been trying to stay away from her as much as possible ever since a few days ago. I was actually out with her mom and her brother helping her brother pick out a new laptop since he didn't really know what to look for. I still care about her family obviously and was trying to lend a helping hand. We ended up going out to eat afterward and then I went over to her house to help her brother get his new laptop all set up and rid it of all the junkware that typically comes installed on new computers. She was currently out at the time, so I figured it wouldn't be too bad if I came over for a while.
I was actually getting ready to leave when she came home, and of course she wanted to talk to me. She ended up telling me that she was planning on asking this guy out. I didn't really know what to say so I ended up just leaving right then. We've talked a couple of times since but I've been pretty much trying to keep my distance wherever possible, because I always end up feeling really shitty every time I see her.
So, she has a new boyfriend already and I'm... well, I don't really know how I feel. -
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