The dreaded "S" word!

Kill that thread with fire. I wish I'd never started it.

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I think if people have a tough time getting laid, they should just focus on their personal finances, and career path. I know a guy that has never had a real girlfriend, who went on to become a successful banker. Now he's a regular john at various shady strip clubs. He's seems like he is pretty content. However, I know for some, myself included, paying for sex just wouldn't give you the same satisfaction as having a girl legitimately want to have sex with you.

However, by this particular banker's logic, everyone pretty much pays for sex, via dinners, drinks, gifts, etc. I personally believe there is a difference though, even if it's just a one-night-stand.

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Meh, the whole virgin-to-promiscuous continuum is pretty pointless. Some people have a lot of sex, others have none at all. Some people are okay with this, others view it as a source of strife or immaturity (speaking of both ends of the continuum).

Ultimately, the only thing that matters is that one is healthy and happy.

/sermon

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I can assure you that nothing has changed as far as my life is concerned. I had come to believe it didn't bother me any more like it so obviously did in the past, but as of late I've been having a shitload of nightmares related to this subject, so apparently subconsciously, it does.

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On a more serious note, if it makes anyone here feel any better i'm incapable of any sexual activity.

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Krispy said:

We can bring this back on topic if we start discussing sex in Doom.


Once upon a time, a family of imps were eating breakfast. Suddenly, their little son asked:
- mommy, why was your bedroom door closed last evening?
- it's... - his mother stopped, puzzled.
- honey, we have to get it over with - said her husband quietly. - who else, at his age, still thinks that we're all being spawned?



(that's what I have in my head every time somebody interrupts a biology-esque thread saying that demons are supernatural, illogical etc. and there's no point in discussion)

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Snakes said:

Good God, I forgot about this thread. Doomworld discussing the topic of virginity can rapidly evolve into a lot of WTF.


Oh God, this is it

the saddest thread

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These kinds of threads or debates always make me stare mindlessly into first blank spot within my point of view. Yeah, I'm also virgin. That wouldn't be anything strange weren't it for the fact that I can't stop being one. I'm pathologically screwed up since birth. There is close to nothing I can do to change it besides getting rather radically scalpelized. The worst thing about this is that I developed a hell of a crush on cute czech lady from my university, even asked her out for dinner a bunch of times in our romantic student canteen. Yeah, apparently hormones do still work good enough in me to make me feel miserable. And to think the most orgasmic thing we're going to undergo will be a hug, heh. Apparently I still haven't developed any depression and haven't ever felt suicidal, despite having all the rights to. Somehow it feels nice to have this out of me, I've never really told so to anyone, ever. But some of you pathetic social losers trying to search for laughable excuses wherever possible does make me cringe.

Don't mind me and please resume your casual discussion.

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j4rio said:

Yeah, I'm also virgin. That wouldn't be anything strange weren't it for the fact that I can't stop being one.


Why not?

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I think the more time you spend being a virgin the more you dwell on it and invent this crazy hypothesis about how you're an outsider or that there is something inherently wrong with you, whether it be your personality, your looks, or how you function in society, when all it is is some level of social anxiety that makes you treat sex like it is "the dreaded s word" instead of something that's perfectly normal.

I was always brought up in my social circle that losing your virginity was a super crazy awesome experience. it "changes the way you think" and makes you feel "more of a man than you ever did before" when in actuality it's not even half as special, especially if you wait so long to do it. It's a lot better than pillow fucking though.

Porn these days is crazy though. We have crazy high resolution pictures and these fucking gorgeous women you'd never get a chance to see in real life. Sex is pretty awesome but I can understand why one would remain in their comfort zone and watch a gangbang video every now and again instead of risking being rejected by your favorite girl.

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Kontra Kommando said:

Why not?

j4rio said:

I'm pathologically screwed up since birth.


did you literally stop reading his post after that sentence? if he wanted to reveal more about his medical issues, he would have done it on his own.

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40oz said:

I was always brought up in my social circle that losing your virginity shrooms was a super crazy awesome experience. it "changes the way you think" and makes you feel "more of a man than you ever did before" when in actuality it's not even half as special, especially if you wait so long to do it.

FTFY

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dew said:

did you literally stop reading his post after that sentence? if he wanted to reveal more about his medical issues, he would have done it on his own.


Well, I did read, and i figured he'd go into more detail. He went as far as he did already via a public forum.

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Technician said:

FTFY


You should have left in "It's a lot better than pillow fucking though."

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GoatLord said:

What the hell was I thinking starting this stupid thread. I'm a prude, at that. Just me being irrational as usual. Can we hell it yet?




Not before we hear this one on the way down.

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Kontra Kommando said:

I think if people have a tough time getting laid, they should just focus on their personal finances, and career path.

schwerpunk said:

Meh, the whole virgin-to-promiscuous continuum is pretty pointless. Some people have a lot of sex, others have none at all. Some people are okay with this, others view it as a source of strife or immaturity (speaking of both ends of the continuum).

Ultimately, the only thing that matters is that one is healthy and happy.

/sermon


Ok, I'm going to say I'm closer to the not singing the song I posted way back in page 1 a hell of a lot more than I would. It's exactly for the reason of concentrating on career and finance, and a lot of other minor things that takes up my time, but I'm hapy enough so amen

Though I'm not like KK's friend, something about paying for sex is just unsettling for me.

40oz said:

I think the more time you spend being a virgin the more you dwell on it and invent this crazy hypothesis about how you're an outsider or that there is something inherently wrong with you, whether it be your personality, your looks, or how you function in society, when all it is is some level of social anxiety that makes you treat sex like it is "the dreaded s word" instead of something that's perfectly normal.


Don't quiet know about that, I havn't came up with any crazy hypothesis, I'm just not interested. The only akward moment I have faced is when aunts and grans start asking if there is a girlfirend, looking for great grandchildren\niece\newphews, which somehow doesn't bring the more akward "boyfriend?" question yet (no and I'm not, not that there is anything wrong with that, but that a debate for another forum if really required).

Think after high school, social circles calm down on sex in general, more sexual comments but less pressure.

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It's not that bad, GoatLord.

EDIT: @ Scottland89: My own dad was convinced I was gay until I was well into my twenties, so I know an aspect of your pain. :)

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Yeah, my da hit me with that question straight out when I was in my teens. He seemed to forget that I went to a single-sex school and didn't have any money to go out. Probably wouldn't have been so bad had I actually been gay ...

Anyway, I can't post in this thread without one, so:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1VLCs4Dl8lg

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schwerpunk said:

EDIT: @ Scottland89: My own dad was convinced I was gay until I was well into my twenties, so I know an aspect of your pain. :)


I havn't been asked or accused (in my face anyway) yet but just not looking forward to the akward moment when somebody does ask as it'll be at a family party and it'll just embaress me and the person who asked a bit, but we might be able to alugh it off.

A friends aunt once thought I was his mums boyfriend, despite the 20-30 year diffrence between us, which has since been laughed about countless times, so who knows.

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Why do Scalliano post those radom videos?
And why is his avatar no longer a zombie?
I would prefer cyborg or some cold-blooded alien as a partner because human body is too warm and it make me feel uncomfortable when I touch it.

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Sokoro said:

Why do Scalliano post those radom videos?
And why is his avatar no longer a zombie?
I would prefer cyborg or some cold-blooded alien as a partner because human body is too warm and it make me feel uncomfortable when I touch it.


If you can't figure out the recurring theme in the videos, I can't really help you :P

And my avatar got exorcised and is now a player skin.

Oh, and:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0ImRyPymRAM

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I think that anyone who would make a nasty remark about a grandmother has a problem sex-wise.But probably more frustrated than anything.I feel VERY sorry for the person.

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scalliano said:

<several YouTube videos>

Have they changed their page layout AGAIN!

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This summer I might have a good opportunity to call out an escort for my 29th birthday. I might finally take my accumulated knowledge and theory into the real experience. Amen. :p

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Obsidian said:

I just noticed GoatLord's title. Poor guy. :)

Haha, it could be so much worse, though. I think it's in good fun. :)

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Obsidian said:

I just noticed GoatLord's title. Poor guy. :)


Seems fitting to me. But hey, this is probably one of the more interesting threads we've had in a while.


Anyways, for promiscuity: Girls who do to much are sluts, and men who do it to much are also sluts. Remember, even you like to collect STDs, unlike other collections, you can't trade them for better ones... Well, I guess you could actually... Hm... You just can't sell them on eBay and get rid of the collection once you obtain it.

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