i can't join my own skulltag

i can't join my own skull tag server every time i do it brings me to the console screen and says "make sure you have the correct wads"

maybe you have specified your wad folder in doomseeker or IDE and it's not your skulltag folder. Then you can join other servers with IDE/Doomseeker, because they know where to look. But if you try to join your own server via a server tool, it just looks into your skulltag folder i think, so the commandline goes like "skulltag.exe -file yourwad.wad -connect 127.0.0.1" instead of "skulltag.exe -file C:\pron\secretwadfolder\yourwad.wad -connect 127.0.0.1".
In short, try moving necessary wads (including IWADs) to your skulltag folder.